In or Out??

Like riding a roller coaster, or finding yourself in the middle of a maze, falling in love is the one of scariest part of being a human being. It is not easy. It takes a lot of courage and confidence to tell it to the person you love and courage to admit it even to yourself. It requires you to take risks, do things which you haven’t even done before, and conquer one of man’s greatest fear -rejection.  It is terrifying because you’ll never know if someone will always be there to catch you. We’re afraid to jump out from our comfort zone because we fear that we might just hit the floor real hard, hard enough to leave bruises and damages that may stay in our hearts forever.

Meanwhile, being in love can be considered as one of the most exciting part in our lives. Some may say that being in love is the greatest feeling that anyone can experience. They would say that we are lucky enough because we are made to love and to feel loved. It can really make a great impact in our lives. It can make your eyes flutter every time, can give unending butterflies in your tummy, make you stutter, make your knees feel like jelly, make you smile by just staring into space, make you believe in ‘happily ever after’, and the list goes on. It can give you an ‘out-of-this-world’ feeling and make you realize things that may change and inspire your life. It may change you to someone else whom you thought you would never be, someone whom you've always dreamed to be, or worse, someone whom others wished you to be. 

 But, most of the time, when love holds  us too tight and  brings us high enough to reach the climax of our happiness, it will suddenly loosen its grip and just let us fall and break into pieces again. Some may go through this smoothly and easily but some do not. Some will feel like they’ve been cheated or even think that they should’ve never fallen in the first place.Falling out of love is painful, suicidal, and crucial. It can change your views and even destroy the ideal world that you had created. It feels like you've been woken up from a long dream and find yourself facing reality alone again.

 People just tell you- its fine, its over, so move on now  but it is not. Its too easy said than done. You do not know exactly what it means till you actually go through the whole process yourself. Yes,  falling in love is the most powerful, exciting and most amazing thing that we can ever experience, and maybe that’s why falling out of love really hurts like hell...